Illusive Change
Illusive Change
Woman are known to generally have a good intuition about things. They are sensitive and more receptive to messages from Spirit (or Source, or God, however you choose to name the Creator). I find that woman (or individuals with a more feminine energy) are the first to realise something is wrong in their life. And, they start looking for answers. On average, I have more woman come to me for the first time, then later, other people in the family might follow.
We normally start a quick conversation about the circumstances that lead up to them making a decision to come and see a stranger like me. Quickly we find connection points to identify a plan forward for the person to facilitate their own personal progression. At some point during the conversation, the woman tells me: “oh my husband must come and see you”. My answer, almost ALWAYS without fail is: “please not”!
Why would I say this?
The following quote might explain it a bit more eloquent than me:
No one changes unless they want to.
Not if you beg them.
Not if you shame them.
Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love.
There’s only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to do it.
And there’s only one time when it will happen: when they’re ready.
Lori Deschene
I always tell my clients, that their first priority is themselves. They need to focus on healing their own ailments first. IF the manage to create that change, people around them will in any case notice. If they too want to improve or better their circumstances, they will start to ask questions. That is them approaching you. It’s a very different energy than “there is this woman and you MUST go see her”! No one wants to be told what to do. It just gives the wrong foundation for everyone (including me as the practitioner), to work from. I don’t see clients who don’t want to be seen, if that makes sense.
We must want change for ourselves, that is always step one! Anything different from that is wasting time, money and energy and it’s setting everyone up for disappointment and failure. Are you ready for change? Are you hungry for change in your life? Are you brave enough to take the first steps to create change for you and your family? Contact me if you are curious to figure out how to activate the mechanics of change in your life!
Love and Moonlight,
Leonie
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